Honor that Heals
This is for you if you want more than just understanding — if you are ready to experience real heart-level healing and step into the peace & restoration God promises for your life.
Learning exactly how to honor your parents (no matter your story) will directly impact the areas of your life where you continually find yourself stuck.
Whether it be your finances, relationships, or struggle with self-care, understanding this foundational wisdom is going to be a crucial next-step in breaking painful patterns off your life.
Honor Your Parents Without Denying Your Pain.
Inside Honor That Heals, you’ll learn how to:
Understand biblical honor clearly—without shame, spiritual bypassing, or self-betrayal
Allow God to heal the unresolved wounds connected to your parents—even if reconciliation or reunion isn’t possible
Begin walking in freedom, peace, and emotional steadiness that flows from a reconciled heart, not religious striving
Self-paced masterclass (85 min) • Immediate access • Lifetime replay
“As with all of Nicole’s other work, the change I experienced following Honor that Heals was gentle and pretty immediate."
Billie
WHAT THIS IS NOT
This is not a teaching about:
– Forcing reconciliation with unsafe parents
– Excusing, minimizing, or spiritualizing abuse or neglect
– Obedience that requires self-betrayal
– Public sharing, emotional exposure, or reliving trauma
– Trying harder to “forgive correctly”
WHAT THIS IS
This is a Holy Spirit–led healing experience designed to help you:
– Bring your whole story (pain included) before God
– Understand biblical honor without shame, confusion or unhealthy obligation
– Partner with The Lord to heal unresolved wounds at a pace your body and heart can tolerate
– Experience reconciliation of the heart, even when relationship repair isn’t possible
Honor That Heals was created to be contained, guided, and emotionally safe—especially for women who carry deep relational wounds.
You will never be asked to disclose personal details, confront anyone, or push past your capacity. This work unfolds through teaching, prayerful reflection, and invitation—not pressure.
What You Will Receive:
Pre-recorded masterclass (85 min) you can complete at your own pace
Guided prayer and reflection components
Lifetime access to the replay
A gentle structure suitable for tender or complex family dynamics
Start today • Self-paced • Lifetime replay • Gentle + trauma-aware
This Masterclass Is Especially For You If…
You love God sincerely, yet feel stuck in emotional or relational patterns that haven’t shifted—despite prayer, effort, and faithfulness
You were taught that honoring parents meant obedience, silence, or spiritual bypassing
You carry real pain from one or both parents and want to understand honor without denying your story
You long to live in peace, stability, and wholeness, but feel as though something unseen keeps blocking the way
You’re ready for heart-level transformation that flows from reconciliation with God, not religious performance
“This workshop has been monumental in the Lord’s sanctifying and transforming my life and inner man. It touches a sensitive subject with utmost care and wisdom that is woven by the Holy Spirit and Scripture. This commandment can be a difficult one to navigate especially if you come from a family where dysfunction existed. But know that if the Lord is nudging you toward this class, He has true breakthrough for your heart and life here. He is in the business of restoring families and relationships, but above all, of reconciliation within your own heart with Him before anyone else. Nicole’s obedience in doing this work has moved mountains for me, and your obedience to the Holy Spirit’s gentle leading can and will move mountains through faith.”
Billie
Inside Honor that Heals, you will be guided to:
Understand what biblical honor actually means—and release the confusion, shame, or pressure surrounding it
See why this commandment still matters under grace, without slipping into performance or self-betrayal
Recognize how unhealed parent wounds subtly shape provision and relationships— often without our awareness
Discern the difference between heart-level reconciliation and relational reunification, so healing remains safe and wise
Experience a Holy Spirit-led path for healing unresolved wounds that keeps you caught in cycles of fear, striving, or self-protection
Live more fully from your true identity in Christ, where faith is embodied rather than forced
Learn what it means to honor from God’s strength rather than your own effort
The Only Commandment That Comes with a Promise
“Honor your father and your mother, as The Lord your God commanded you, that your days may be long, and that it may go well with you in the land that The Lord your God is giving you.” – Deuteronomy 5:16
This promise is an invitation.
God was never asking His people to bypass pain.
He is inviting us into a way of living where the heart is healed, relationships are rightly ordered, and life can operate correctly.
Honor That Heals was created to help women understand this commandment as God intended — not through striving, fear, or denial, but through the healing work of the Holy Spirit.
This teaching creates space for truth and tenderness to exist together, so obedience can flow from love rather than obligation or religious striving.
What Scripture Means by
“It May Go Well”
When Scripture speaks of life “going well,” it is not promising a life without hardship.
Jesus Himself assures us that we will face trouble in this world.
What God offers instead is something deeper and far more sustaining: a life that functions as it was created to function.
Biblically, when things “go well,” it means:
– The heart is no longer divided
– The nervous system can come out of survival
– Relationships become safer and more rightly ordered
– Wisdom instead of survival governs decisions
– Peace becomes accessible even in difficult seasons
Life doesn’t become effortless — but it becomes less chaotic.
Less driven by fear.
Less governed by self-sabotage.
Why Honoring Your Parents Matters — Even Under Grace
For many believers, the commandment to honor mother and father becomes a place of quiet confusion, especially when there has been real harm.
Some were taught that honoring means obedience. Others learned to spiritualize pain, minimize abuse, or silence their own story in the name of being “Christ-like.”
But Scripture does not call us to deny reality in order to obey God.
When Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments,” He wasn’t inviting us into performance — He was revealing the nature of love itself.
The Law was given as a blueprint for love’s expression. And grace was given not to erase that blueprint, but to empower us to live in alignment with it from a healed and reconciled heart.
Biblical honor is not meant to break you.
It is meant to restore you, no matter what you've been through.
Grace does not oppose the Law — it heals what prevents us from living it.
Where wounds exist, obedience feels impossible.
Where healing anchors, obedience becomes natural.
Honor, rightly understood, is not behavior modification.
It is a heart posture formed through truth, love, and restoration.
Experience the Fruit of a Reconciled Heart
As God heals the places where honor was once confusing or painful, something begins to shift—not through effort, but through restoration.
This is what many women begin to experience:
A growing capacity to settle into who God truly created you to be, rather than performing for acceptance
A deeper sense of safety and trust in God as Father, especially where provision once felt uncertain or fragile
The ability to rest more fully in Christ, even when life feels demanding
The fruit of the Spirit emerging naturally—without striving, spiritual performance, or self-betrayal
This is not a promise of a perfect life.
It is an invitation into freedom and wholeness that can be lived and embodied, even within a broken world.
How Healing Reordered My Life
As God healed the wounds I carried regarding honor, my internal world began to stabilize.
I found myself able to choose safety over survival, wisdom over desperation, and restraint over impulsivity.
Over time, the fruit of that healing showed up tangibly in my life.
For me, “things going well” didn’t mean life became easy.
It meant I began to:
Over time, those internal shifts bore true life transformation.
Where I once lived in instability and constant fear, stability slowly replaced chaos.
Not because God promised me prosperity —
but because healing removed the internal barriers that kept life & relationships from operating as meant to.
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Many women discover this is the foundation…
“I’ve been following Nicole’s work for a couple of months now, and every time I engage with her work and see what the Lord has done in her life, my faith is strengthened. This workshop came to me with divine timing, and I cannot thank Nicole enough for leading me through this season of my life with grace and presence. I have tried to heal on my own for a long time, but every time I take part in Nicole’s work, I am reminded of the importance of allowing God to do the work within me. Before I found Nicole’s work, I didn’t understand God’s laws, but after taking the workshop Honor That Heals, I’ve come to understand His law in an entirely new way. I experience that Nicole speaks directly to our hearts when she teaches, which is a unique gift. She doesn’t sell a quick fix, but instead invites us to walk with the Lord on a heart healing journey. I can't thank her enough for holding my hand through this process.”
Fredrika
FAQ
Do I have to reconcile with unsafe parents?
No. Honor is not the same as reunification.
If contact is unsafe or harmful, honor can still be practiced through clear boundaries, honesty before God, and heart-level reconciliation—without placing yourself back into environments the Lord has not called you to endure.
Will I be asked to share my story or relive trauma?
No. This is designed to be contained, guided, and emotionally safe.
You will never be asked to disclose personal details, confront anyone, or push past your capacity. The experience unfolds through teaching, prayerful reflection, and invitation—not pressure.
You choose your pace, and you can pause, revisit, and take breaks as needed.
What will I actually get when I purchase (and how do I access it)?
When you purchase, you’ll receive immediate access to:
A pre-recorded, self-paced masterclass
Guided prayer and reflection components
Lifetime replay access, so you can return whenever God brings new layers of healing
Access is delivered digitally (you’ll receive instructions via email). If you don’t see it within a few minutes, check spam/promotions—then reach out and we’ll make sure you’re taken care of.
What if my parents were abusive/unsafe?
This class was created with that reality in mind. It is not about excusing, minimizing, or spiritualizing abuse or neglect—and it is not about forcing reunification with unsafe people.
Instead, it creates space for you to bring your whole story (pain included) before God, receive clarity about what biblical honor actually means, and experience heart-level healing at a pace your body and heart can tolerate.
If you’re no-contact or need firm boundaries, you can still participate fully and safely.
I’ve tried forgiveness work before—how is this different?
Many women have been taught to “forgive” in a way that actually requires self-betrayal, silence, or bypassing pain. This is different.
Honor That Heals is trauma-aware and Scripture-centered, and it focuses on the deeper places where the commandment became confusing or painful—so obedience can flow from a reconciled heart, not religious striving.
This is not “try harder to forgive correctly.” It’s a Holy Spirit-led path that makes room for truth and tenderness to exist together.
How long is the masterclass, and can I go at my own pace?
Yes—you can go completely at your own pace. This is a pre-recorded masterclass designed to be gentle and self-paced, with lifetime access so you can revisit it whenever you need to. The teaching is approximately 85 minutes long, and you can pause, break it into short sessions, and return as the Lord continues to heal deeper layers.
What happens after I buy?
You’ll receive immediate access by email.
Watch in one sitting or in small sections.
Replay anytime. (lifetime access)
Honor that Heals was what I needed in this season that I’m in with healing areas my parents fell short and fully honoring them so that I’m not tangled in the wounds but walking in freedom.
Mindy
Learning how to actually honor my parents removed what kept me bound to unsafe relationships, survival behaviors, & scarcity patterns.
Self-paced masterclass (85 min) • Immediate access • Lifetime replay
Christian life coach and healing mentor
Nicole Hope
Nicole Hope is a Certified Christian Life Coach, Elijah House–trained Prayer Minister, and trauma-informed practitioner specializing in biblically grounded emotional and nervous system healing for Christian women.
Her work integrates Scripture-centered discipleship, prayer ministry, and body-based trauma resolution to help women experience lasting heart transformation—not just insight, but embodied freedom.
After years of living in survival mode marked by anxiety, relational trauma, and emotional instability, Nicole encountered the redemptive power of Jesus in a way that reoriented her faith from striving to surrender. Through partnering with the Holy Spirit in her sanctification, she experienced deep emotional and spiritual healing that transformed patterns of fear, self-sabotage, relational rupture, and instability into peace, safety, and wholeness.
Now, Nicole guides women through the deeper work of sanctification—where biblical truth moves beyond intellectual understanding and becomes lived reality. Her approach is especially for those who love God sincerely, yet remain stuck in cycles they cannot resolve through willpower, Scripture study, or prayer alone.
Nicole creates sacred, emotionally safe spaces for women to encounter God in the buried places of the heart—where early wounds, distorted beliefs, and unresolved pain quietly shape faith and relationships. Her work helps women reconcile their hearts to God, restore emotional and relational integrity, and walk in the fruit of the Spirit without striving or self-betrayal.
Nicole believes God’s promises are meant to be lived here and now—not postponed for eternity. Her teachings support women in stepping into peace that stabilizes the nervous system, relationships that restore rather than drain, and a life that truly “goes well.”
Honor That Heals is offered as a foundational step toward reconciliation and peace.
Immediate access. Learn at your own pace.